Intro & Hook
“I appreciate this space because the container was built for us to come in softly and typically, when we have to enter worlds and spaces, we have to come with edges on...”
Power 50 participant
Our Opening Sessions
We always start by coming together to welcome our participants to land in our decolonized space. This intentional act disrupts white dominant cultural ways of engaging and indicates that our space will be one of healing and belonging where folks can bring their whole selves, know they will be taken care of, and be helped to detach from all that is pulling on them outside of our space. Our goal is to make participants feel as though they arrived at a good friend’s home after a day of travel and can rest, eat and release in a beautiful space chosen for their comfort, enjoyment and growth.
To create the conditions that enable us to receive the rest of the offerings and each other, we then hold significant time to co-create a liberated zone (known In many other spaces as "community agreements.") It is tempting to skip this process because we can often feel squeezed with time, but making the investment strengthens our community and pushes each of us to show up as our best selves.
These sessions help participants transition into this communal, decolonized space together.
Description: Training for Change offers this template for a Diversity Welcome. See how we adapted this for Calling In & Up in this session guide. More on the Diversity Welcome from Training for Change below:
"The intention of the diversity welcome is inclusion. It can be long or short. The more parts or aspects of what is present are named, the more the participants are likely to feel welcome in their diversity. It is a ritual, so don’t be bothered by the repetitive phrasing. Take your time with it!
You will want to add or subtract based on what margins are important for the group (for example, in a staff retreat naming all the roles in the room would be important). The common element is to inclusively name the range with a genuine “Welcome!” You might like to prepare notes to remind you of a few you don’t want to forget. Feel free to give up the script, take your time, use your own style, bring your own energy into it, and look at the participants as you continue your welcoming. It can be a surprisingly tender experience, for facilitators and participants. Enjoy!"
Description: Wherever we begin with a group, we want to make sure we understand where we are and connect to a lineage of leaders who have made the community more inclusive, vibrant, and just. Consider this as a starting place for forming your own welcome to the land. This welcome was adapted from Wenatchee Valley College’s Land Acknowledgement.
Description: This activity creatively brings the participants and facilitators into community. Because the poems bring out unobservable characteristics, they reveal aspects of each person’s unique story without focusing on economic, educational, or professional status. Give participants about 10 minutes to write, then have each person share all or part of their poem, making sure everyone offers something. They should hold onto it for the length of the program as it may be brought back into the practice.
Description: Setting/resetting your group’s container is one of the most important things you can do, but folks often want to skip this step because they worry more about what needs to get done instead of what it means to be in community with each other. You cannot call people in and up if you are not committed to defining how your group will be with each other. Taking the time to reset the container is time well spent.
By developing community commitments that honor what every person brings to the table, group members come to see equal value in their different identities and experiences. Through this activity, participants craft community agreements then explore the cultural, political and personal barriers to living up to them. Through this process, they 1) co-create a space that enables the surfacing of issues and identities that may be used for self-protection or to silence others and 2) develop shared commitment to how they will engage. This session should be facilitated the first time a group gathers as it lays the foundation for future learning and experiences. It should be revisited each time a group reconvenes.
Process: about 90-120 minutes plus breaks with 16 people
Description: This practice is meant to establish one on one or small group relationships within your cohort among participants. By intentionally partnering participants with each other, an opportunity is offered for deeper connections to be made, a place for potential one on one or small group support, growth and learning and an accountability partner. Homies also help offer introverted participants a more comfortable environment to share their reflections and get curious.
Women identified people of color face enormous leadership challenges as we navigate things like gender and race based oppression, institutional pressures, balancing work with family and self care and making big decisions. The homie practice helps to offer an individualized support system for leaders in a collective liberatory learning environment. The practice cultivates interdependence by inviting women of color leaders to talk through their personal leadership development, challenges they might be facing and sharing best practices - an approach that white dominant work environments often lead us to believe is not available to us.
Process: 7-15 minutes
Description: This activity supports participants to become aware of and identify actions they each can take to maximize their learning experience. While there are other factors that impact a learning experience, ultimately each of us is in control of the knowledge and experiences we take away. Sometimes we unconsciously take actions that limit our experiences or set up barriers to learning. By encouraging vulnerability, this activity asks participants to be honest with themselves and identify supports to maximize their learning. We recommend doing this at the beginning of a cohort/program.
Process: 45 minutes
"We welcome people who have traveled 30 miles and people who have traveled 3000 miles.
We welcome people of African descent, Black, African American, Asian descent, Arab descent, European descent. Those who identify as Hispanic, Latinx, people Indigenous to this land, and people of mixed, multiple descents.
We identify as a woman-centered space and we welcome all the ways your gender is expressed -- whether you're trans, gender queer, or anywhere along a spectrum
We welcome all the first languages spoken here -- Spanish, English, tagalog, indigenous languages, Sign Language, etc.
We welcome people who identify as activists or organizers and people who don't.
We welcome your emotions: joy & bliss, uncertainty, fatigue, anxiety, grief, rage, indigtation, disappointment, contentment.
We welcome our elders: those here in this room, in our lives, and those who have passed away."
Excerpt from Calling In & Up Diversity Welcome